Une réflexion que je mène également… car même si j’apprécie la pensée positive, et que j’essaie de devenir quelqu’un de positif, je ressens aussi beaucoup de contradictions, et je ressens ce côté « non naturel ». Devenir tout positif est une illusion quand même, parce que parfois c’est inapproprié. Voici un article très court qui fait réfléchir sur le sujet, mais ce qui m’attire le plus c’est la conclusion :
I am probably one of the most positive people you have ever met (even being able to claim that is a sign, isn`t it). In fact I think positive all the time and it is difficult for me to see a problem somewhere where most of the people see it.
However I am not following the religion of positive thinking, and I will tell you why.
There are situation where positive thinking can even harm – in a way of hiding the true picture of the issue. Cerulo, a professor at Rutgers University, wrote a book last year called Never Saw It Coming. She points out that medical workers and computer technicians—the professional troubleshooters of the world—keep our bodies and mainframes running by being paragons of pessimism. When doctors and IT workers take up a case, they begin by dispassionately assuming the worst and then move up from there. Their protocols demand precise and evolving definitions of the most severe maladies and malfunctions, while they tend to have fuzzy and almost absentminded definitions of health, well-being, and normal function. Facing a problem helps more that just being positive about it!
Since much is being spoken about positive thinking, one recent American study has shown some interesting results on the topic.
A patient’s positive or negative emotional state has no direct or indirect effect on cancer survival or disease progression, according to a large-scale new study. Published in the December 1, 2007 issue of CANCER, a peer-reviewed journal of the American Cancer Society, the study found that emotional well-being was not an independent factor affecting the prognosis of head and neck cancers.
So why am I, myself being a positive thinking person oppose it so persistently? For the same reason that I oppose many psychological methods and techniques – for the “unnatural” nature of them!
I believe that the positivity is something that comes from within, and it can not – and should not! – be trained. Positive thinking can be taught, no doubt. But isn`t it strange when people “try to think positive”? Whatever one does on purpose does not really work in a proper way. One has to be authentic. Natural. Innocent like a child… Then everything works.
You BECOME positive when you touch your deeper SELF.
When the true beauty of your nature reveals through every cell of your body, every movement of your soul, every sparkle of your thought.
When you KNOW YOURSELF.